Women dating more than one man
When that is coupled with not having been with someone for a while, it is an extremely potent combination that can quickly escalate into a full-blown intense relationship, often before you reallyknow who you are dating.
We often talk in our workshops about the importance of de-intensifying the beginning of a relationship, if you want to date in a healthy manner.
This encourages women to date more than one man at the same time.
Sami said: “When you do this you’re less likely to get too attached to any one of them quickly.
In keeping with the purpose of dating, we advocate a conservative, defensive posture since it is our experience that there are many more people that don’t know how to date in a healthy manner than those that do.
For this reason Sami recommends a type of dating called “rotational dating”.
There are three rules of thumb for dating more than one person: Dating more than one person is a great way to de-intensify the beginning of a relationship, to learn more about each person you are dating, and to truly assess the health of each dating experience by having a clear basis for comparison.
Remember, it’s your heart which is ultimately at stake.
This keeps you emotionally objective, and in a position to choose more wisely."When women are dating more than one man at once they also appear to have a “high-value” status is the eyes of men.“They instinctively know that they can’t take her for granted, or they’ll lose her to a more deserving candidate,” Sami said.
Sami added: “Rotational dating doesn't mean you have to sleep with everyone.” 1.
For many single adults, there has been a history of dating one person, seeing if it will lead to a close significant relationship, and taking the relationship as far as possible.