What does one mean by intimidating
Wide smiles that reach your eyes (the “Duchenne Smile”) and open, welcoming body language can make a shy or introverted guy feel more welcome.
Showing genuine interest or honest appreciation in his accomplishments or hobbies can also help him overcome feelings of “What could she possibly see in me?
He may be overwhelmed by the force of her personality and worry that he will be forced to be the inferior partner in the relationship.Some women are just naturally more outgoing and rowdy; the loud group of party girls are a regular feature of many parties, bars, and club scenes.Many guys – especially introverts – can find this upsetting or discomforting.” And I do mean genuine; shy, geeky guys are perpetually concerned that people are secretly making fun of them.If he doesn’t have the self-esteem or confidence to get past the power differential – and beauty looking for someone better.
Your instinctive response may be to play down your looks, and while this can work – there’s a reason why the “beautiful-after-all” trope exists; everyone likes the idea of the librarian who’s secretly model-gorgeous – it’s ultimately putting the responsibility on you.