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They need to get comfortable with the fact that she's not going to bring someone into their lives who will do them harm or ship them off to a boarding school in Brazil.
They also need to appreciate that the inclusion of a new male figure in their lifestyle doesn't diminish the importance of their real dad.
This is sure to create a happy life, and hopefully a long relationship. We just got married, so I must have done something right, but I can tell you, I did a lot wrong.
Here’s the deal, when you are a single woman in her mid-30s, with no children, pretty much every man you are going to meet, that is your age, and you want to date is going to have children.
Not to mention, you are both employed in some way or another and have a multitude of life, family and work commitments to work around. As your relationship grows you will become a priority, but when it’s new, you will be second fiddle to his kids.
It’s hard enough to date as an “adult”, but throw in someone else’s child or children and, whoa! While dating, I met and spent time with a few single dads and some single guys with no children. And, if you are OK with that, and understand his commitment, he will respect you and be willing to give more of his time to you.
I was sadly disappointed because apparently, women like I was; single, mid-30’s and CHILDLESS are freaks of nature. Here’s what I know now, that might be helpful for you, too… This is a sign that he is ready to take his relationship with you to a new level. For him, this is a REALLY big deal, because he’s hoping you are going to stick around. If you aren’t ready for this commitment, let him go before he gets here.
It seems that I missed the memo that said by the time I was 30 I needed to procreate so that when I got divorced I could be “normal” and be a single mom. It will only mean heart break for you, him AND his children, who may not understand why you aren’t there anymore.
Their lives were bigger, happier and full of good stuff. If you have been dating a single dad, and he wants to introduce you to his kids, don’t take it lightly.