Mens perspective on dating
He offered to take her for some fast food (or something quick).
She knew that he was well-off financially so she took his offer for coffee and turned it into a steak lunch.
Furthermore, the Ephesians 5 passage describes the husband as “the head of the wife.” Men are called to be—created to be—leaders.
This is not an empowerment that mystically comes upon a man at his wedding, but part of his inherent nature.
Since he has money, he didn’t mind paying for this surprisingly costly lunch date. He knew that she was taking advantage of the situation.